post 27 improve relationships
What is promised is debt, so I am going to talk about how to improve social relations
The first, as I outlined previous post, is to be comfortable with yourself, feel good in your skin, apply the rules of ho’oponopono, be with you alone doing creative activities, reading, meditating …. Enjoying you, and your loneliness and your company. Be clear about your virtues and defects and your mission of life. I have 2 missions, enjoy life, be happy go and help others basically with coaching and when I finish my career with psychology
And now I am going to the point. To improve relationsphpsi with others there are several things, first you have to distinguish between friends and people you can choose to relate to and then other people who are more difficult to choose (neighbors, co-workers …).
Although there are some basic rules for all of them that is what I will talk about today
-first something that is “copy” of how to get along with oneself, which is to apply the rules of ho’oponopono: to thank others for what they give us, forgive for their mistakes, say sorry when you are wrong and tell them that you love them (or their positive things)
-also see their positive things
-look for things that you have in common and positive
-If something bothers you about the other, see how it can be fixed (this gives for a whole course of social skills !!!)
-set your limits
-respect space of the other …
Any questions? Anything you want to comment? Pleased to read you here or through my email mariarivescoach@gmail.com in my next post I will continue talking about how to improve relationships with others

